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How to have love in every relationship and in every aspect of life
The opportunity of life is to learn to live in the experience of love. When this is present, you are happy, alive and free. You feel good about yourself and good about life. You radiate a very positive energy and great things happen around you.
Ultimately, this is the happiness that we seek, but we have been taught that it comes from our circumstances. We then go through life trying to force people and life to be a certain way. We think that this will somehow bring us the happiness that we seek, but it doesn’t. Instead, it destroys love and creates suffering.
The presence or absence of love it not the result of our circumstances. It’s the result of how we relate to our circumstances. When you change how you relate to life, you change what happens around you. By healing inside and growing in your awareness, you can have love in every relationship and in every aspect of life.
Why certain areas of life don't work and how to have these areas clear up
If you have a relationship or any other area of life that isn't working, this area of life may seem to be the problem, but it isn't. It's the symptom of an underlying condition of resisting or hanging on.
This underlying condition creates a state of fear, upset and tunnel vision. It destroys your ability to see clearly and keeps you from finding solutions. It also forces you to act in a way that magnifies the problem.
If there is any area of your life that isn't working, this underlying condition will be present. The moment you remove this condition, you restore your ability to see clearly. You discover solutions and this area starts clearing up. Until you find and remove this condition, the problem will continue.
It only takes one person to heal a relationship
Relationships usually start out great, but sooner or later someone gets hurt. Then that person gets defensive and becomes critical of the other. Then the other person gets upset and becomes more resentful in return.
Before long, the two people create a cycle of conflict -- a cycle of resisting, attacking and withdrawing from each other. This cycle of conflict then goes on and on without either person noticing his or her role in the problem. It destroys love and sabotages the relationship.
This cycle is present in any relationship that isn't working. Fortunately, the cycle cannot exist with only one person. It's like a tennis volley. It takes two people to keep the cycle going. It only takes one person to end it. When you change how you relate to another person, you change how that person responds to you.
Letting go: The key to being effective in difficult times
When you are in a state of fear and upset, you lose your ability to see clearly. You get tunnel vision and tend to make your situation worse. To be most effective in handling a difficult situation, get rid of the fear and upset.
The moment you restore your peace of mind, everything looks different. You see your situation clearly and can see what needs to be done. Solutions appear and this area of life starts clearing up.
You restore your inner peace through a process called letting go. Fortunately, letting go is a relatively easy thing to do. You just need to know how. The ability to let go is one of the most important skills you can ever learn.
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